cross-posted from: https://programming.dev/post/36855283

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  • 50% of young men say they would rather date an AI girlfriend than risk rejection from a human partner
  • 31% of U.S. men aged 18–30 report already chatting with AI girlfriends
  • 19% of American adults overall say they have explored AI romance
  • 80% of Gen Z say they would consider a virtual relationship with an AI girlfriend
  • 83% of Gen Z believe they can form a deep emotional bond with AI companions
  • Buffalox@lemmy.world
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    10 days ago

    This reeks so much of bullshit.
    To me it sounds like claiming young men would rather date a picture of a bunny, than risk rejection.
    Like WTF?!?!?

    There is no dating an AI, you are fucking not on a “date” of any sorts. You are chatting with a fancy bot, that will parrot whatever bullshit back to you it has compiled from more or less reliable sources.

    • Canaconda@lemmy.ca
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      10 days ago

      To a degree this is just another clickbait, “Younger Generation Ruins XYZ Thing Only Old People Care About.”

      On the other hand… I do think there’s some truth to young men being more rejection adverse than previous generations. Though I admit it could easily be a case of Baader-Meinhof due to social media.

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      10 days ago

      On the other hand, the AI will never talk back, doesn’t want to abandon you to spend time with its own friends occasionally, and doesn’t have a mother who thinks her offspring could do much better. Doesn’t sound half bad, if you ignore the fact that it’s all fake.

      Yes, putting up with all that is all a part of building healthy relationships between humans, which is a key part of growing into adulthood. But not everyone gets there.

  • brucethemoose@lemmy.world
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    10 days ago

    I don’t get this at all.

    • I’m horrifically lonely. I’m basically a shut in. I need a hug.

    • I’ve got serious rejection anxiety, among other problems. But I used to have a lot of friends in the past, which makes it even worse.

    • I… Get attached to characters, like some in TV or wholesome NPCs in games. I wanna hug them.

    • I’m a local ML enthusiast. I’ve been tinkering with chatbots before ChatGPT was even a thing, including “RP” finetunes.

    I’m the target market.

    …And I don’t see the appeal of this?

    It’s the same reason I don’t get why guys pay to gawk at (excuse me if this is insensitive) people twerking on OnlyFans or Instagram or whatever. There’s no human connection. Do guys really think thumbs-upping some performer behind a screen is emotional attention?

    Same with chatbots. They can be cerebrally interesting story generators, sometimes, sure. Even an interesting ‘mirror’ to bounce private thoughts off of.

    But a girlfriend?

    I really don’t get it. I can’t empathize with that.

    I don’t get the world at all, and how billions of people seem to think they’re in some kind of two-way human relationship with influencers or (apparently) chatbots. Where’s the connection?


    And yeah, I saw this is a ad, but the idea itself is still weirdly interesting.

  • PumpkinSkink@lemmy.world
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    9 days ago

    It’s ludicrously irresponsible to even use the language of “date” for this. This is straight up a category error. You can’t “date” a chatbot.