• Psythik@lemmy.world
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    14 days ago

    Exactly. My girlfriend will disappear for an entire day and not come home until 10pm. I usually have no idea where she is or what she’s doing (mainly because I forget due to having ADHD), but I don’t worry about it because I know she’ll never cheat. How can a person even be with someone who they don’t trust? Without trust, there is no relationship IMO.

    • hornedfiend@sopuli.xyz
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      14 days ago

      that doesn’t always work out the way you’re expecting though, but I agree, trust should be opt-out.