• bryndos@fedia.io
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    29 days ago

    Do you notice people misunderstanding you? That’s how you’d know.

    If you are not getting feedback from your readers, then fair enough, you’ll never know; but in that case, how do you even know anyone is reading your writing?

    I tend to think my grammar its like a tree falling in the woods, the few squirrels that notice it can probably find another tree to harass.

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      28 days ago

      Ironically, I’ve found that in many cases, frequently I find perfectly correct grammar to be more a hindrance to communication than a boon. In certain cases, grammatically wrong leads to fewer misunderstandings.

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      28 days ago

      I might have terrible grammar and everyone knows it except for me Do you notice people misunderstanding you? That’s how you’d know.

      The case where people know about a grammar issue but still understand the writer is a counterexample to your claim.

      As someone who was raised Rural and will drop a lot of dialect into speech, I’ve seen how it colours the response and taints the message. I’ve seen where people spot a bad habit and just let it go. People know.

      The more one learns about structure and form, the more one notices these gaffes; and not only does it change how the message was received, but it can also be one-sided. For instance: people who say “some emails” don’t realise how discordant it sounds to people who don’t say “some mails”. People who say “some email” I think aren’t generally noticed by people who say “the mails”.

      What you do with what you notice? That’s on you. But in a world where first impressions are actually a thing, it’ll be noticed.