I came here to vent; I’m sick of being told that I’m non-confrontational and I avoid confrontation, I don’t. I avoid confrontation with you because you need to be correct so I’d rather not waste time by arguing with you and instead just find a way to solve the problem in which you’re correct and the problem is solved. And it’s objectively wrong to say about me that I avoid confrontation because I do have regular confrontation with specific people who do end it.
But if you think conflict builds character you’re not going to get any of that character building with me ¯\_(ツ)_/¯ sorry nobody owes it you which means no one owes you a confrontation which means I’m not avoiding confrontation.
Ugh. I know that personality you’re talking about. Everything with them is a fight, and they expect the same in return and are pissed when you don’t play along.
“I’m not avoiding confrontation. I’m simply not willing to be your non-consensual sparring partner. You thrive on drama where for me its draining. You’re trying to provoke me into active conflict as a means to stave off your starvation. Instead, I’m disengaging with you so I don’t die of exhaustion.”