• mechoman444@lemmy.world
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    I’d like to take a moment to point out that the child’s race is mentioned exclusively by the people reporting this story. At no point was the child’s race mentioned by the police or by the parents who called them.

    Although those parents may have privately considered race a factor, there is no indication that they explicitly mentioned it or that it played any stated role in their decision to have this family trespassed from the property.

    And that’s precisely my point: the child’s race is completely irrelevant to how petty and ridiculous this situation already is. Having a family trespassed because their child was supposedly too good at soccer is absurd enough on its own.

    I hate that the article’s headline goes out of its way to mention the child’s race, seemingly for no other reason than to generate clicks and stir up controversy. And, of course, the comment section falls for it hook, line, and sinker. Suddenly, everyone is convinced that race must have been the issue.

    Maybe race played a role behind the scenes, or maybe it didn’t. We don’t have enough information to know. But the people reporting this story have made it a central part of the narrative, and the comment section has run with it as though it’s an established fact.

    The underlying story is already ridiculous enough. We don’t need journalists injecting racial controversy into it without evidence just to generate engagement.

  • BarneyPiccolo@lemmy.today
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    49 minutes ago

    If I were the cop, I’d show up just to yell at the guy who called me, and to tell him that if I ever again show up to a call he made that turns out to be as idiotic as this one, I’ll arrest HIM for abusing public services.

  • NotAnOtter@lemmus.org
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    I played soccer at that age, my siblings did too, and my cousins do as well.

    When you’re 3/4/5 you’re not playing soccer. There are no rules, positions, score, winner/loser or goalies. It’s “go kick the ball around time”. When the ball goes out of bounds the coaches, who are often just some dad, just give it to a player that has not had a ball in a while. No one is trying to win, there is no ‘win’, it’s all make believe for the kids to have a chance to run around for a while in the sun. If one super-player wins every match, that sucks for every other player on the field including his team since they don’t even get to “win”, there are no winners. They just have to sit around bored with the other team because there is no point.

    So the league refunded the parents fee and asked them to not come back (trespassed them). They are no longer legally allowed on the field and for that matter, have no claim to participate in the league seeing as they were refunded. They weren’t kicked out on the basis of race, it was many parents complaining “Hey, I paid ~$600 for ‘go kick the ball around time’, and you are facilitating a situation where my kid doesn’t get to kick the ball”. This isn’t a competitive format it’s gym hour and they are not receiving the product they paid for.

    A 3 yearold hogging the ball all game, isn’t doing anything wrong. He’s 3. He’s should be instructed to share more but he isn’t doing something that warrants the cops involvement. The parents however, that understand the situation and failed to correct it / their kids ability to share, do. The adults that received their money back, understand it. The adults that received a trespass notice, understand it. The adults, who the cops talked to not the kid, understand it. The parents of the superplayers here at being assholes and injecting their kid in a situation they already KNOW will cause problems. All the kids are just being kids and the other parents, as far as I can tell, just want their kid to receive the product they paid for.

    Too many people in this thread letting their emotions control their opinion due to a scary headline about a subject they apparently know very little about.

    • ExLisper@lemmy.curiana.net
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      49 minutes ago

      If it was a matter and refunding and asking people to leave why was police involved? I can think of 100 ways to handle this without police starting with giving the other kids another ball.

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          Source? All the article says is “i9 Sports, which operates youth leagues, camps, and clinics for children ages 3 and up in sports including soccer, has not issued a public statement on the incident. Local police have also not released information confirming details of any call or escort.”

          Too many people in this thread letting their emotions control their opinion due to a scary headline about a subject they apparently know very little about.

          What you’re describing is not just some more reasonable interpretation of the info in the article. You’re describing facts other people have no way of knowing. It’s not “letting emotions control their opinion”. It’s simply having opinion about facts at hand.

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            The family states that the league banned them from the field via a trespass notice and that officers then escorted them away in front of the other children. They say they later received a refund for the 2026 fall soccer league registration.

            The same article, but what I’m having trouble finding is whether they had been banned before this game or as a result of this game.

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              you know what, I had assumed that naturally the ban had already occurred and that this was not the initial trespass notice that the cops responded to

              if they called the cops and issued the trespass at the same time, that’s weird. if they issued the trespass and then they refused to leave, well yeah duh call the cops that’s what they’re for

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        Yeah but when they get there, there isn’t a marked soccer field with 2 goals and 15 other kids all wearing matching uniforms.

        You’re paying for the orchestration and scheduling of the games

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      Too many people in this thread letting their emotions control their opinion due to a scary headline about a subject they apparently know very little about.

      This is my Lemmy experience in a nutshell. I really wanted this to be a good reddit alternative, but it seems kinda like maga for the left. Which obviously is better than maga, but still exhausting.

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        I thought it would be better than corporate social media. Seeing as there has to be some reason you came here rather than the ‘easier’ options.

        But no it’s mostly people just being emotional and slinging mud. I’ve already been called a bigot in this thread even before that wall of text.

  • WizardOfFrobozz@lemmy.ca
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    GUARANfuckingTEED to be the same parents who won’t shut the fuck up about participation trophies, how kids these days are too soft, and how nobody deserves anything they haven’t earned through white-approved work. Always preaching meritocracy, personal responsibility, and how losing builds character. Fucking snowflakes.

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    3 hours ago

    Obviously this looks awful on its face, but we definitely don’t know all the details leading up to them getting a criminal trespass notice. Having an 8 year old who plays recreational soccer, I can confidently tell you I would have a serious problem with another parent live streaming his games on Tik Tok. Dad says “there’s thousands of people watching this, he’s famous.” This seems likely to be against the rules at most soccer clubs, and it’s definitely a privacy violation.

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      Okay, then why is the viral video of them kicking this kid out of the league and having him escorted out with police instead of a video of the coach having a conversation with the father about live streaming the games?

      Because if that was the issue, then that should have been the conversation. Not “your kid is too good we’re going to kick him out of the league because he’s making the white kids feel bad about themselves.”

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        Selective editing. That conversation could have already occurred and the parents refused and were trespassed. They knew the rage bait of having a cop come and kick them out would get views so that’s the only thing they published. I will never trust influencers, especially one’s who involve their own children. They are almost always complete scum of the earth.

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        The only information we have is from the family who were live streaming the game. Not sure I trust their statements on why they were escorted off by police. Definitely feels like there’s a lot going on that they’re not going to disclose.

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        Neither you nor I know what conversations the league had with the parents or how many times, because the parents here did not share that. The league has not shared any information on what happened, and rightfully so, though I’m sure they will now that it’s hit the news. I’m just cautioning against automatically jumping to the worst conclusion on very little info, and also sharing that I’d have a serious problem with this parent live-streaming my son on Tik Tok.

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      Fuck i never even thought of this. Back in the days, the worst thing was an overbearing parent next to the field. Now you have people uploading your child durectly to social media.

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    The article is down. Threadiverse death hug?

    A family says police escorted them and their 3-year-old son off an i9 Sports youth soccer field in Winter Park after the league issued a trespass, following complaints from opposing parents that the boy held the ball too much and was “trying to put on a show.”

    The incident, captured in video the family posted to TikTok under the handle @nevadaney10 and later shared widely, shows the child — identified by his parents as Nevada — playing in a league with kids roughly two years older. According to the family’s accounts in the video and related posts, he dominated possession, was substituted multiple times in a roughly 30-minute game, and still scored multiple goals (the family cited 10 in one game). Opposing parents are heard complaining that the play was unfair.

    “They really called the police on a 3 year old because he had the ball too much,” the father said in the circulating video. The mother is heard responding to parents gathered nearby: “Those grown ups huddled up talking about my son… but he ain’t doing nothing but playing soccer.”

    The family states that the league banned them from the field via a trespass notice and that officers then escorted them away in front of the other children. They say they later received a refund for the 2026 fall soccer league registration. The original video notes that the game was being live-streamed on TikTok, so other viewers saw the sequence in real time.

    Police called on 3 year old Black boy—for being “too good” at soccer.

    Officers escorted his family away in front of all the other kids.

    After league had them tresspassed from the field.

    “They really called the police on a 3 year old because he had the ball too much," dad said.… pic.twitter.com/kqIn2PIDF5

    — LongTime🤓FirstTime👨‍💻 (@LongTimeHistory) October 25, 2026

    Nevada has previously drawn attention online for skill clips and goal highlights posted by the same account, with some videos circulating on accounts such as House of Highlights and ESPN FC. Family posts describe a pattern of the 3-year-old excelling against older children in the league, which they say prompted repeated complaints about fairness.

    i9 Sports, which operates youth leagues, camps, and clinics for children ages 3 and up in sports including soccer, has not issued a public statement on the incident. Local police have also not released information confirming details of any call or escort. The family’s video and posts remain the primary public record of what occurred.

    The episode has prompted online discussion about age-group rules, competitive balance in recreational youth leagues, and the decision to involve law enforcement at a game involving a preschool-aged player.

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      I’m going to wait for more details before I get worked up about this. Not gonna take the word of a family of influencers.

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      They trespassed the kid, so the police had no choice but to escort him out. Which absolutely is a waste of police resources, but is also perfectly legal and follows the process.

      In more reasonable countries, nobody can trespass you from a football field, unless you give them a very good reason like repeated physical assault.

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        Who trespassed the kid? Like I know it says “the league” but the league obviously didn’t have any meeting or come to a consensus in time to make that decision.

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          The other parents repeatedly complained about their kid not being able to participate in the make-believe form of a soccer played at age 3/4/5

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      And followed up with a ticket. This happened at work when some teen tried to fax and could’ve figure out dialing put over 9 or 1. Somehow faxed 9911Xxxxxx so the fax called the police. They showed up and fined us for the waste of time.

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    6 hours ago

    White people intuitively understanding how cops are there to protect white supremacy even though when asked directly they’ll deny it and call themselves allies of black people

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    If you watch the video, the parent says “We always stay on this side and don’t interfere with the other parents.” Followed by “Something was said today because they were all huddled up talking about my kid.” So the parents got into an argument at some point.

    The article mentions a TikTok live stream, so I wonder if that part got recorded.

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      Yeah I noticed those comments. I’m sure there’s more to this than we know. I’m not saying calling the police due to the reasons said is ok, but sounds like something more happened.

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        I mean, even if the story is true as told, I still want to know more about the story and what was up with the huddle. Were they loud enough to hear from the other side of the field? Were they pointing at the kids? Did the parent pass by and hear something? Who called the cops, and what did they say? What’s on the trespass order?

        I don’t have TikTok, so unless this story gets huge, I’m probably never going to hear about it again.

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    Well, I’m not really sure how I’d feel about it from a moral standpoint (and I have no idea if, or what, might be going on behind the scenes). But from my perspective, the incident (and the media coverage) is great publicity for a boy who might one day make a living playing soccer. I mean, a 3-year-old who gets taken off the field by the police because he’s outplaying 5-year-olds might just be a sign of some talent…

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      Yeah, you might’ve traumatized a baby by calling the cops on him, but think of his future career prospects! Thank goodness the pig didn’t murder him so we can see what kind of value we can extract from his black body!

      /s

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      I’d rather him get the same treatment as his talentless white peers: safety, respect, education, support etc.

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        I feel the same way; I believe that this must be the goal is really not even up for debate.

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        If this happened to a white kid, they would be suing for trauma damages of a million dollars arguing this will ruin the child’s career because anytime they play soccer they will be worried if they play too good he will have the cops called on him.

        I hope they sue.

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        Kid’s learning and early lesson in ACAB. Also, the white kids are going to remember this and if they have a shred on empathy, will be hesitant around cops now.